5.19.2012

Lydia Sightings

SETTLING IN OUR NEW PLACE

The Internet was just turned on, so Lydia and Daddy decided to try it out with a Sesame Street video. "1, 2, 3, 4" song is a favorite!

"I've got mommy flip-flops on!" Like mommy, like daughter.

BAKING TIME

The Mobleys are coming over tonight! What should we make for dessert? No fear, Lydia to the rescue. "I'll make my yummy Reeses-pieces, peanut butter cookie bars! What do you think Whitey?"

 All good bakers try their creations. "Yummy, this is good!!!"

Bring out the Kitchen-Aid Mixer.

Go mixer! Go! They are going to be delicious!

POOL TIME

... and all my friends are invited (if they have a bathsuit). Looks like 'Mingo will be joining us!

Mr. Pig is all suited up! And look, "I'm wearing mommy's bathsuit."

Its a party wherever me and my friends are!


5.15.2012

Books for April: Sexual Assault, Calvin, and Beauty

Rid of My Disgrace by Justin and Lindsay Holcomb
April... isn't this a little late to post? Well, all for good reason. As I was reading Rid of My Disgrace, I knew this work needed a full review. I emailed my friend, Jeff Shaw, who started a hotline for trafficking victims in Atlanta called Out of Darkness, to see if he would post a full review on his website (www.outofdarkness.org). He was gracious enough to accept my offer and I am thankful he posted it. The book review can be found here. Rid of My Disgrace by Justin and Lindsey Holcomb is a tender, compassionate and biblical response to help sexual assault victim. The book is so much better than the review. If you know anyone who has this painful experience in their past, or anyone who helps those who do, this book is the place to start. I give the book a 10 out of 10.

Light for the City by Lester De Koster

There are three streams of Reformed Theology flowing out of the Reformation: doctrinalist, pietistic, and culturalist. Light for the City seeks to explain and expand Calvin's influence from the third.  The author reads Calvin's major work, the Institutes, backwards pulling only from a few sections of Book IV, this work overemphasizes a small slice of Calvin's influence. Calvin is portrayed more as a politician than a pastor, a statesman than a preacher. Calvin (and Calvinism) is a city builder and preaching the Word was his mechanism. Furthermore, it seemed the author reads history backwards as well. His logic is, "Look! There are Calvinist/Puritanical cities all across Europe and America. This means Calvin lived and died to make it happen." The cart before the horse? Or, how Marx and Calvin are somehow best friends? Really? My question for myself is "have I been reading Calvin improperly?" Or, "is this a misguided caricature of John Calvin wrapped in masterful stitched prose?"

There is much in this volume about Calvin's kind of preaching which was outstanding. Here is a great quotation, "At least, for now, this for the preacher: just be brave enough to give vocalization to the Word incarnate in the Bible, text by text--preaching what God through his Word declares and implies. Behavior will follow. Thus Cities can be created. And were" (79). All and all, the 130-page book could have been three good, long chapters on Calvin's preaching. That would have been worth my reading. I give the book a 4 out of 10.

Jonathan Edwards on Beauty by Owen Strachan and Doug Sweeney
The second installment in the Essential Edwards Collection and the topic this time around is beauty. Most people do not understand Christianity, and the God behind it, in terms of beauty. Edwards did. Truth included more than historical events or propositional sentences for Edwards, but seeing God for who He really is and being utterly awestruck through truth. Staring at God's excellencies (Edwards' word) displayed in who He is (being), what He revealed of Himself (His Creation in general and in Christ particularly), and what He reflects to (His Church) like capturing a human smile or taking in a breathtaking sky is the task of the Christian. The Christian is given a "divine and supernatural light" in their very heart which awakens true beauty, the source being God himself. This little book captures a slice of Edwards' vivid works on the beauty of God. Like the first book, it is relatively short and is packed full of Edward's quotation, helpful commentary and application. I give the book a 8 out of 10.

5.10.2012

Six Years: One Face

This Sunday, May 13th (which also happens to be Mothers' Day this year) marks Brian and my 6th anniversary of wedded bliss!

Yep, 6 years ago I said yes to this face. 

Well, maybe not exactly THAT face...he was looking a little different on our wedding day. Surprisingly, it wasn't only his stunning good looks that drew me in love with Mr. Brian Stock. 

You see, Brian is funny. He made me laugh. He never laughs at my jokes (which I think are funny) and his are not, but he still makes me laugh...usually when he's not trying to be that funny...or when he's laughing himself. He's the first one who made Lydia laugh (by singing and dancing) and so at least we agree. 

Brian is diligent. I know he wants to spend more time preaching and reading and doing ministry. I know he wants to write more. Yet, he works to provide for us. He does what he is doing now well. He looks ahead but does not become entranced with the future. 
Brian is constantly seeking to be better, do better, love God better, enjoy Him more...he's a man on a mission. I love that he is never stagnant, though not a busybody like I am prone to be. 
Brian is self-aware. When there is a problem, he looks to himself first to root out sin. He assesses situations with grace and clarity. 
Brian casts vision. For a gal who gets so wrapped up in the small stuff, it is a relief and a joy to have a leader who can actually LEAD and see what is ahead...or at least a little further than I can see. 
Brian loves the Lord and loves his family. I have no doubt in my heart or mind (because I have seen it in his actions and plans) that Brian will always seek to provide for us. He will serve us so we can flourish and nurture our love for God as He comes to the Great Gardener to be pruned himself. 
Brian is frugal. Brian is punctual. Brian is a planner. Yep, those are the minors but when they match up to my minors it makes a major difference. 
Plus, I still think he's pretty good looking!

Six years isn't a very long time by some standards; in some ways it feels like we've been together my whole life and in some ways it feels like we are just beginning. At our wedding we danced to "Depths of Mercy", which truly describes how I feel about Brian. I do not deserve him. I do not try to, so I thank God for His deep mercy that calls me into this sweet covenant of marriage with my best friend. 
Our engagement photo. You may have seen it in the Sumter "Item" newspaper...
However you slice it, I hope to have sixty more years with this one face. 

5.04.2012

Evelyn Grace Heilman, Child of the Covenant



Yesterday, our good friends, Chris and Sarah Heilman, welcomed Evelyn Grace Heilman into the world. She arrived at 3:56 a.m. after 50+ hours of labor. She weighted in at 8lb. 6oz. We had the joy to see her last evening. Lydia got to touch her hand. I got the joy of holding her for a bit.  Mandy did as well, yet we hadn't yet pulled out the camera. Though, Evelyn did spit up on Mandy. Mandy said that was better than a picture. She felt honored!


Sometime around September 2011, we heard the news that Sarah was pregnant. We were SO overjoyed since they have tried so hard and longed so much for a child of their own. Well, the week that we heard, I was also studying Psalm 113. The Lord reminded me how great He is especially to barren women! The Lord and Giver of Life!


Psalm 113
Who Is like the LORD Our God?
1 Praise the LORD! 
                  Praise, O servants of the LORD, 
      praise the name of the LORD! 

            2       Blessed be the name of the LORD 
      from this time forth and forevermore! 
            3       From the rising of the sun to its setting, 
      the name of the LORD is to be praised! 

            4       The LORD is high above all nations, 
      and his glory above the heavens! 
            5       Who is like the LORD our God, 
      who is seated on high, 
            6       who looks far down 
      on the heavens and the earth? 
            7       He raises the poor from the dust 
      and lifts the needy from the ash heap, 
            8       to make them sit with princes, 
      with the princes of his people. 
            9       He gives the barren woman a home, 
      making her the joyous mother of children. 
                  Praise the LORD! 


5.02.2012

Dancing in the Minefield

I need to listen to this song every couple of months:


I was nineteen, you were twenty-one
The year we got engaged
Everyone said we were much too young
But we did it anyway

We bought our rings for forty each
From a pawn shop down the road
We made our vows and took the leap
Now fifteen years ago

We went dancing in the minefields
We went sailing in the storm
And it was harder than we dreamed
But I believe that's what the promise is for

"I do" are the two most famous last words
The beginning of the end
But to lose your life for another I've heard
Is a good place to begin
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/a/andrew_peterson/dancing_in_the_minefields.html ]
'Cause the only way to find your life
Is to lay your own life down
And I believe it's an easy price
For the life that we have found

And we're dancing in the minefields
We're sailing in the storm
This is harder than we dreamed
But I believe that's what the promise is for

So when I lose my way, find me
When I loose love's chains, bind me
At the end of all my faith, till the end of all my days
When I forget my name, remind me

'Cause we bear the light of the Son of Man
So there's nothing left to fear
So I'll walk with you in the shadowlands
Till the shadows disappear

'Cause he promised not to leave us
And his promises are true
So in the face of all this chaos, baby, 
I can dance with you

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